With today’s technology, the rules of dating have reached a new strategy; text date magnetic messaging book. Sometimes you are way too busy to actually have time to go out somewhere and meet a girl, never mind having lengthy conversations over the phone. Text messaging seems like the best not-so-new thing for these types of people, because face it, we’re all very busy 90% of the time. Text messaging, however, can be a very dangerous game. One needs to know how to go about it so they do not sound like a complete fool.
First of all, pay no attention to the ‘playing it cool’ crap. That never works and women do not care how cool you’re playing it, you just sound stupid. Instead of waiting a few days to text the girl who just gave you her number at the bar, do it when you get home before you go to bed. She will see that not only are you interested, but that you are wasting no time whatsoever. Ladies love a guy who won’t leave them hanging, kind of like a cliff-hanger in a book. They don’t like that, so just text her.
If you find that you sent a text over an hour ago and still no reply, don’t start freaking out just yet. Regardless of gender, people have things to do at all times in the day and people can be busy. Give him or her some time to reply, because if you are sending out more texts than you are receiving, you need to chill out. Nobody likes getting those, “hello? Are you there?”, texts multiple times. Once in a while is probably okay if things are taken further, but don’t do it. One thing that also would not hurt, especially if you are a man texting a woman, give her a nickname. Stay the heck away from Cupcake, Honey or those sugary, creepy and weird names. Try Shortie, Geek, Blondie or whatever you feel like. Women love little nicknames, but do not give them one that is after a pastry or any other baked goods. That cannot be stressed enough.
The number one thing that you do not want to achieve in this situation, is to become a text buddy. You have this girl or guy’s number, you’re chatting more frequently now and you feel comfortable with this person. Once the other person, in your opinion, becomes more open and you feel that they are comfortable with you as well, ask them out. Asking this person to meet up probably will not do it, so mention a place that you have been wanting to go to and see if they’d like to join you. Keep invitations wide open and make sure to get a straight answer out of them, do not let them beat around the bush. If they try to, say something such as, “come on, a few of my friends are going so maybe you could invite a few of yours.”, if they do not seem comfortable meeting one on one just yet.